What an amazing evening with author Sandy Hinden who presented on his book, 7 Keys to Love. Below is a summary/notes from the group discussion:
The 7 Keys to Love are really an exploration of the 7 kinds of love
We are a “couple’s society”–we fall in love with the idea of being in love
The reason for the high divorce rate and number of people in unhealthy relationships is a misalignment in values
Relationships are a values alignment between two people: similar goals, similar values
You must know what you want.
Love yourself the way you want to be loved.
A “beloved” relationship is a magical relationship
Love Addict: abandoned in past, craves love
Love Avoidant: overbearing or abusive parent, “colder” one, the one being pursued.
Here is the chart Sandy spoke of for discussing our feelings:
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